Yeah I have to agree 💯 that...

Labels are not useful because humans are capable of anything. I don't think desires or thought/temptations define who we are at all I think what we actually do the most and enjoy the most defines who we are, and I enjoy female physical contact the most and always have. I think everyone has fantasies etc from time to time and has taboos, but do they act on it, etc. I feel like that is what defines is the action and frequency maybe. I've always been monogamous too and only desired the one I was with. Humans are suckers for pleasures. I don't dive in to every little thing. That's where self control and stuff kicks in. So yeah I mean it's ok. I'm not a bad person or a pervert just because of desires. I shew most of them off.