For those who crave guidance, not games.

I believe real dominance is about presence and understanding, not control for its own sake. I’m patient but firm, and I value genuine connections built on trust and growth.

If you identify as a sub or sissy and want to discuss the lifestyle from a mature, grounded perspective, I’d like to hear from you.

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lovingdead · 36-40, M

i was a sex therapist for years. the same people who think they understand sex because of porn are those same ones who think they understand any part of BDSM for the same reason.

DancingStarGoddess ·

@lovingdead Out of curiosity...what made you give up the profession?

lovingdead · 36-40, M

@DancingStarGoddess 3 things, 1- my partner (guy who had the practice) moved overseas, 2- i moved away from the area where he had it so no taking it over, and 3 the place i moved though they could benefit from an office like that, doesn't have much of a want for it.

DancingStarGoddess ·

@lovingdead Thank you kindly for indulging me with such a thorough response, it's greatly appreciated! I understand completely.

lovingdead · 36-40, M

@DancingStarGoddess not a problem at all