Is it bad that I fantasized about one of my girlfriend's friends?
It happened last night and I'm sure why, I woke up like "Um, okay". I felt kinda guilty afterwards.
22-25, M
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AudhdGirldeterminedtoSucceed · 22-25
It happened in a dream ?
Either way I would suggest that if you feel a safe space, discuss it with your girlfriend.
Or any other safe person.
The things about subconscious desires and fantasy is that they are born from the shadow, desires that are there but we don't shed light to it.
And that's what gives it power.
Bring it to light safely.
Acknowledge it and Accept it and Then you can change it. In whatever way you want to change it .
Either way I would suggest that if you feel a safe space, discuss it with your girlfriend.
Or any other safe person.
The things about subconscious desires and fantasy is that they are born from the shadow, desires that are there but we don't shed light to it.
And that's what gives it power.
Bring it to light safely.
Acknowledge it and Accept it and Then you can change it. In whatever way you want to change it .