Has it happened before? Feeling mild guilt is probably a good sign.
If not let it go and don't get goofy and act on it. It's pretty common for random people to pop up in our dreams. It doesn't make you horrible or anything
If not let it go and don't get goofy and act on it. It's pretty common for random people to pop up in our dreams. It doesn't make you horrible or anything
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@JimFarris16 ok... That part doesn't interest me, lol. You asked was it bad and no, not really. It's kinda common. Just don't act on it and forget about it if you can I guess?
JimFarris16 · 22-25, M
@DancingStarGoddess I thought that was kinda crucial in why I felt guilty. I guess you're right though.
@JimFarris16 the guilt is normal bc of who it is, no? 🤷🏾 The scene doesn't really matter tbh. The person does. It is implied that it's sexual in nature as you said "fantasized" and not merely " had a dream about." Wasn't hard to follow along without it.
AudhdGirldeterminedtoSucceed · 22-25
It happened in a dream ?
Either way I would suggest that if you feel a safe space, discuss it with your girlfriend.
Or any other safe person.
The things about subconscious desires and fantasy is that they are born from the shadow, desires that are there but we don't shed light to it.
And that's what gives it power.
Bring it to light safely.
Acknowledge it and Accept it and Then you can change it. In whatever way you want to change it .
Either way I would suggest that if you feel a safe space, discuss it with your girlfriend.
Or any other safe person.
The things about subconscious desires and fantasy is that they are born from the shadow, desires that are there but we don't shed light to it.
And that's what gives it power.
Bring it to light safely.
Acknowledge it and Accept it and Then you can change it. In whatever way you want to change it .
TheSandman01 · 13-15, M
"Honestly, I don’t think it makes you a bad person. Fantasies can pop up unexpectedly, and they don’t always mean something deeper. What matters is how you handle it in real life, and the fact that you felt guilty shows you care about your relationship. Try not to beat yourself up—our minds wander sometimes. If it bothers you, maybe reflect on why it happened, but don’t let it define you."
Panamared · 70-79, M
Go for it
caccoon · 36-40
It's grosser that you wanna talk about it.
JimFarris16 · 22-25, M
@caccoon It was also like that fantasy sequence in Christmas Vacation. lol
caccoon · 36-40
@JimFarris16 do you have a therapist you like?
JimFarris16 · 22-25, M
@caccoon Can you recommend?
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Yes.
Jesus loves you less now
Jesus loves you less now