Can we be who we want to be? Or do we fantasize about a form of self that reflects a greatness that could never realistically exist?

Idk id like a nice clean pristine presentable house and a slim figure but I'm a slob who guzzles pizza and milkshakes and gained 40 lbs lately 😳 im sure some people have the resolve and drive to reach their goals and ideals but for others its all just a distant dream while we indulge in our vices/nonsense 😐 unfortunately

Maybe it just gives us something to strive for