I Am Pregnant and Single

Im 31 weeks pregnant. At 6 weeks my bf of four years left after finding out. It was very unexpected as he always said he would be fine with having children. I cant force him to stick around. Every week that ticks by i feel more sad for the baby and more afraid. Thats life i guess. Always expect the unexpected!

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Pherick · 41-45, M

Oh :( Thats horrible, very sorry to hear. I never understood this, I mean I don't have kids, but if I did have one, I can't imagine leaving.

Even if my gf and I broke up, you bet your ass I would still be part of that kids life.

Givemelife · 36-40, F

@Pherick it is sad as much as i want him to love his little girl i cant force him. Its unfair to her. But some people are not made for families.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Givemelife I guess not, maybe better to find this out now then when the little girl is born and starts to know him

Givemelife · 36-40, F

@Pherick i think so. I just wish i knew the ture man he was earlier.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Givemelife How long had you two been together?

Givemelife · 36-40, F

@Pherick 4 yrs continuous. We lived together for two. Things seemed right.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Givemelife Thats a long time for him just to walk away after finding out. No offense, but I think you really dodged a bullet there.

Givemelife · 36-40, F

@Pherick its looking that way... I havent heard from him sense he left but i try to always invite him to the appointments

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Givemelife You are certainly nicer than I would be in your shoes. *hugs* Best of luck to you and your little girl. I am sure you will find a guy who would love to be a Dad to her.

Givemelife · 36-40, F

Well being angry wont fix it. Hopefully intime i will find someone.