There's three ways to spell the girl name I've chosen and I cannot decide which!

@SW-User that's what I was originally leaning toward, but now I keep considering how often it will get spelled wrong.

@Iusedtobehereallthetime True, but at least she'll know when someone actually paying attention and gets it correct and they'll.get.bonus points for the extra effort of getting.it.correct and not being on autopilot so she can tell they care.

Just playing devil's advocate and looking at it from a different angle.