I Am Trying to Get Pregnant

@SW-User ? Read the header.

@SW-User why do you want be have a baby when you’re basically still a baby.

@SW-User is it a crime to want to be a mother? Im engaged to a good man, and we both want children.

@SW-User I never said you were in the wrong, however, I would say that given your defensive response to a question... you may not be ready to be an adult.

@SW-User I was defensive because Ive gotten this any number of times, and it is annoying. And youre one to talk, being no older than myself.

@SW-User I’m neither getting married or trying to get pregnant.

I’ve acknowledged my age, though I helped raise two children.

Are you from a wealthy family? How will you support the family? Will it be just your husband working, or will you work too? Have you got a house? Renting? Brought? Council estate? Have you both lived together at all? Short term or long term? There’s so many things you should check first. Think it over instead of rushing into it.


People rush into having children at a young age, that’s why so many children grow up in broken families.

Not wealthy, no. However, I am in college, my fiancè owns a business. When I graduate, I will be working for a time. We have lived together before. As of right now, we rent out.

You’re in college, he owns a business.

How old is the business? How much time does he spend there? Would he be gone frequently?

College. If you got pregnant now, would you have to drop out before you finish? After college? What happens? Who stays at home with the baby? You or him? Or do you leave it to someone else to raise the baby?

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@SW-User I do badly want to be a mama. And I acknowledge that a lot of girls rush it. Im NOT going blind in this.

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I dont believe the particulars are your business. And about college, I will not drop out. If need be, I can take online classes.

And absolutely no one else is raising my children.

If you say so. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I don’t know you.

If you’ve not looked after a baby by yourself for at least a weekend, I would say do so.

If the business is recently opened, I’d say wait and see what it’s like in 2-4 years.

I’d you’ve not lived together for longer than a year, I’d say wait until the end of the second year.

Basically, finish school... let him build up his business.

If you have a child when you’re 25, you’ll be 43/44 when they’re 18. If they had a child when they’re 25, you’d be a grandmother at 50. There is no rush. That’s all anyone is saying.

It’s not a small decision. Don’t treat it as such. @SW-User

@SW-User Acknowledged. Thank you. I acknowledge its not a whimsy decision. Believe me, Im running headlong into this without a helmet.