For the ladies who have struggled with infertility or recurring miscarriage or other recurring pregnancy issues that resulted in a loss:

You do not have to answer this question publicly, if you would prefer you can send me a PM.

After how many attempts did you decide to stop tryin? That you could no longer put yourself through the emotional and physical stress of either IVF, IUI or recurring pregnancy loss?

Did you final attempt result in what you had hoped for? If it did not, how were you able to move on without achieving what your original goal was?

After all the losses I've had I count my blessings I have 2 beautiful and strong boys. I'm not sure I ever want to try again, but I'm not sure I don't want to either.
How do I know when it's time to put the idea to rest? I don't know if I can live with the pain of knowing my last attempt resulted in the loss of my twins 8 weeks ago.

I know for sure my husband has taken that idea off the table right now. He as well as I and our two sons are dealing with a lot emotionally after the loss of the twins.

So how do I begin to accept the idea that maybe it's time to permanently stop?