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What do you think about a woman who spent her entire life moving from a man to another WITH children, from a state to another

Never offering them stability and long term friendships, no stable educational environment, and then when they grow up incapable of forming social ties and connections, she BLAMES them for it.

After all the things they went through with her, she did find a man she can leech on and he was jealous of her son. It didn't matter to her what emotional stress he put them through because he made her life easier. Her son and daughters..


I contact her to tell her son was actively suicidal and I spent an entire day mast week calming him, and to be there for him , to tell him his difficulties are temporary, what is her response? She tells me he is incapable of forming friendships and holding stable jobs and how that incapability is what ruined his life. And he needs to address it. And that I need be wary of him. I have known this guy for seven years. Seven years.

She didn't make a single reaction about the fact that he wants to pew pew himself.

And I am supposed to respect that..she is why he is this way. He has been on medication since her last marriage.. all sorts of medications.

She ruined his childhood and his sibling's. Not single atom of guilt nor concern. As long as she gets to have the life she dreamed off having some guy tell her what to think and how to treat her own offspring.

"He wants to pew pew himself? Well Miram he never been able to keep friendships and relationships, he may not have told you that.."

Wtf is wrong with people that they badmouth their own kids . She doesn't want to be there for him..she should just said so. As if that is not bad enough, she also needs to get other people to not care.
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Sutten · 41-45, F
I see it a lot where parents don't want to take accountability and responsibility for issues that children have due to childhood trauma. We live in a sad world. I know that sometimes people find themselves in situations where they make decisions because they have no other choice but later down the line the child pays for it. She could have tried to be more understanding as to why he is like this. Some people never grow they stay in that same mindset; they continue to blame others because they don't want to do the difficult work and fix themselves. You have a kind heart to be there for him and support him. 🫂 🩷 🌻
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Sutten · 41-45, F
@Miram This is heartbreaking.

 
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