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Boys will be boys but what do you realize or notice when reading this?

So, I understand the saying as far as boys will be boys.
But I am curious as far as what do you think about this situation.

So during Spring Break my nephew that is 5 years old was given work to do from the school. He was learning about adding, subtracting, and the planet Neptune so I had a great idea for the boy and I to paint different boxes as different planets to form a game where you toss rings made from paper towels inside to gain certain points. Similar to Sonic the Hedge Hog. We also put rocks in the freezer to see which is colder, a rock or an ice cube.

His uncle said that I came off as forceful (pushy) with my activities on the little boy. Just that I recall the little boy watching obstacle courses of hamsters to see which hamster will win. Since all I see that the boy has been doing when he has no work to do is watching YouTube videos, playing videogames, or the same old wrestling in the pool. I don't even think his uncle even witnesses the things his nephew watch on youtube to ask if he would like to try something like that out. All I see and notice is the boy playing videogames that is already installed online. He would come to me various of times showing me the game he is playing and I don't recall him once asking his mom or uncle can he go outside to play with other children when his mom introduced me to people living near her with children themselves his own age. Just last week his uncle told me that my nephew was in the pool playing with another boy. Thank goodness! Just that what if the other boy's parents don't want their child playing videogames or be on youtube endlessly because it might lead their son to be not as productive or connect with others outside of gaming?
I gave my nephew a slingshot with a scope, BBs and targets for his 5th birthday, and his grandfather (my old stepdad) said no, he was apparently only 5. The boy is in highschool or late middle school now (I can't remember), and he still hasn't gotten them. Hasn't gotten the wooden swords I bought him and his neighborhood friends either. He did get the camera drone, but broke it. He got a nintendo switch, liked it for a while. My roman helmet and shield idea was rejected before I could even order it. I can't get him hardly anything fun. It's not fair. If it was up to me he would have throwing knives.
OpalFlower · 36-40, F
@Motzu Well yea for a 5 year old I can somewhat see why there was a no for certain stuff you mentioned just in case he hurt himself or someone else. Maybe wait when he is older to use those materials on objects and not humans. The wooden swords with a roman helmet? That is a safer route and could get him into fencing as a hobby. If he is into that type of stuff from a certain era in time. Also arcades, skating rinks, or trampoline parks aren't cheap but I wonder if your nephew would be into skating etc?
@OpalFlower Japanese swords, not western fencing swords.
That seems like a lot of homework for a 5 year old. There's nothing wrong with you getting involved and helping him.

I think you should try to limit screen time and have him go outside more.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@LeopoldBloom Definitely. There’s math outside too. Grab a piece of chalk and play hopscotch. Have him move from square to square using addition and subtraction as goal. Going up is addition. Going back is subtraction.

Also, darts/ dartboards teach math too. Use the double and triple spots to teach both skill and subtraction.

Another game is cornhole. There’s fun and math involved.
in10RjFox · M
don't recall him once asking his mom or uncle can he go outside to play with other children

That's how the current generation has created an exclusive world which is also secluded from the outside world.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well at 5 he should be playing no time for school work.

 
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