How many more red flags....
Update.... I went and got advice from police and reached out to family court advisor but nothing they will do as it's court order for him to see her and talk with them which I've tired to do.
I've spoken to my socal service and I've told them baby's dad will be on supervised visatatuons and my mum will be with him and anything else happens my mum will remove her.
When I told this to Paul my ex he said that if my mum is to come anywhere near him or our daughter while he has her he will call the police and that he will no longer stay at the center for visitation he will take her wherever he wants with whoever he wants. No one cares to help me at all but apparently if I go against the court order I could face prison or a fine are they seriously?
Leia is now 7 months old she sees her dad every Friday for an hour and while he sees her I have a meeting next door to where he has her and all I could hear is her crying didn't think too much of it but then he starts raising his voice so I run out of my meeting to find my daughter in someone else's arms with two other people standing around her. A lady I know told me he was getting stressed out because she wouldn't stop crying and instead of coming to me so he could take a breather he was shouting at her but the lady told me earlier that morning she had to assist him in changing her nappy because he was getting annoyed with her moving?
What sane person shouts at a baby this is his strike he had one chance and he's blown it, but this isn't the only problem I've had with him he's always late to seeing her.
But my point is he's taken no parenting classes at all but he says he will be fine.
I have too other kids but with baby I still ended up going to the surestart classes as its nice to mingle and learn from others.
I have no clue anymore what to do. My daughters safety is most important but everyone keeps telling me but he's the dad he has a right to see her
Not if he's a safety threat to her hell no we go back to court in October
I've spoken to my socal service and I've told them baby's dad will be on supervised visatatuons and my mum will be with him and anything else happens my mum will remove her.
When I told this to Paul my ex he said that if my mum is to come anywhere near him or our daughter while he has her he will call the police and that he will no longer stay at the center for visitation he will take her wherever he wants with whoever he wants. No one cares to help me at all but apparently if I go against the court order I could face prison or a fine are they seriously?
Leia is now 7 months old she sees her dad every Friday for an hour and while he sees her I have a meeting next door to where he has her and all I could hear is her crying didn't think too much of it but then he starts raising his voice so I run out of my meeting to find my daughter in someone else's arms with two other people standing around her. A lady I know told me he was getting stressed out because she wouldn't stop crying and instead of coming to me so he could take a breather he was shouting at her but the lady told me earlier that morning she had to assist him in changing her nappy because he was getting annoyed with her moving?
What sane person shouts at a baby this is his strike he had one chance and he's blown it, but this isn't the only problem I've had with him he's always late to seeing her.
But my point is he's taken no parenting classes at all but he says he will be fine.
I have too other kids but with baby I still ended up going to the surestart classes as its nice to mingle and learn from others.
I have no clue anymore what to do. My daughters safety is most important but everyone keeps telling me but he's the dad he has a right to see her
Not if he's a safety threat to her hell no we go back to court in October
