Reexamine: why would u tell your daughter that?

I heard a comment why would u tell ur daughter that. So in my strong belief of personal freedom. I was consulted about the one swearing all the time at school. My advice instead of swearing just use the letter. Wat are the gonna do tell u not to use your letters lol. I thought good advice simple. Should i have told her that? This objection i understand more. When i told one of them you can do anything bc ur a person that kid asked for advice not even sure now but my response. I can give advice guidance and what i think or want u to do but in the end u dont "have" to do anything. Much love.