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How to get my daughters ashes

Hi everyone i have been fighting for 8 yrs to get my daughters ashes and belongings from my ex boyfriends mother she kept saying she would send her to me or just attacking me in texts ive tried lawyers they all say they cant help me im totally at a loss and now ive found she has given one of my baby girls outfits away so i told her i want my daughter now but she said dont f with her and i need to shoo i just need to know what i must do im such a wreck with all this
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SW-User
Offer money. Buy it out. No one says no to money ever...
TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M
@SW-User Thats a Bad road to go down
Money will keep increasing and Never will obtain what you wanted and
They already refuse to give up
SW-User
Will “keep” increasing? @TheDisciplinarian for what? All she needs is to get the ashes once. One time.
SW-User
@TheDisciplinarian buy it out once and forget she even exists. What increases are you talking about
TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M
@SW-User increases im referring to are

When one thinks they may or likely can get money from one they're bullying....often said bully will either take said m9ney and Not give Agreed items and or deside to up the amount of money

They Already show a Lack of doing whats Right
(Perhaps even legally wrong in Not turning over asses to the Birth mom)
Who is to say..Money will Resolve the cituation
And Result in the Birth mom being given her deseased childs ashes

I Simply find both the ex as well as ex's mom Not likely to Accept money to change their mind and finally do the Right (& what i think is Likely denying the natural mom..is Illegal..& i fail to understand how this can't be forced to do as shold be by the local police )
SW-User
There is no increase@TheDisciplinarian if you meet up and exchange right there ashes for money on the spot. Its done
TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M
@SW-User i hear you
If done that way..
I Too would so chose it

Over and Done

A Terrible and Shameful happening though..so Sad