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KaysHealingPath It largely depends. Different toddlers will respond to new siblings in different ways. I would consider getting him a toy doll, and referring to it as 'his baby'. That has worked well with my kids in the past, showing them the different ways that babies need to be taken care of and given attention- it also teaches how to accept that such care and time to the new baby will be needed, and teaches them to be a bit patient with it, and to learn to be gentle when handling the baby. Some days will be harder that other- toddlers still have grumpy days, of course, and dealing with a grumpy toddler will always be harder with a new baby to handle, at the same time.
I would say it is unlikely it will be much harder, unless your toddler has not been properly prepared for or is not good at accepting the new baby. With my two oldest (my oldest was also a toddler when he was born), my older one did not talk too early on, and was actually better at reading by three than speaking, but she was forming full sentences in sign language before the age of one, so if you worry over potential speech issues, I would start with baby sign early to make basic communication easier- because my second oldest was also slow to speak, largely because he had an older sister who understood his baby babble and would translate for him, giving him no incentive to learn. One of the biggest struggles with toddlers is a tantrum because something cannot be communicated. So alternative forms of communication help there, as needed.
I would highly suggest a separate room for the baby, as well. A lot of parents keep babies in a room with siblings, but a toddler will grow to strongly dislike a baby if they cannot get away from constant fussing, crying, or being woken up. Which is also where the importance of parent one-on-one time with the toddler comes in, so the toddler does not feel that the baby has 'stolen' the parents away. A baby and toddler transition becomes far, far easier to deal with when the toddler does not dislike the new baby, or view it as a contest or rivalry. So creating a space where you can be with the toddler, uninterrupted by the baby, is just as important for their relationship as creating bonding time between them.
