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My 16 year old son's girlfriend 16, has been cheating for 5 months ?

I learned from her mom said that she admitted this to her 5 months ago almost crying. Her mom brought it up yesterday and she says she is still doing it and hasn't told him about.
She says if he doesn't find then it's not a problem. She told her mom 5 months ago, but she's been cheating with a boy in her P.E class for longer I guess.
She told me that shes tried yalking to her telling her these kinds of things aren't right, telling her she needs to come forward and tell him the truth, or just break up with him. She refuses and downplays what's she's doing.
I'm thinking of just telling him, maybe through text or something, I was even thinking of anonymously dming him on Instagram or Twitter from a throwaway account.
Should I get involved in anyway
CassandraSissy · 26-30, T
Tell him! Having your heart broken is awful but he needs to know the truth...and she needs to know the consequences of her actions....

...and if he punches out the kid in the PE class, then....well...

But be around for him and support him..

🤔
JodiA08 · 46-50, F
Sorry fornthe late reply everyone, I fell asleep. Appreciate the helpful advice and Inthink ill be doing the face tonface talknwith my son. Wont be pretty though.
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TexChik · F
Oh, I think he will thank you for it sooner or later. Definitely tell him. No one wants to be treated like that. He should just cut off all contact with her and start seeing other girls.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
There really is not much you can do about it other than tell your son,and say it to him not use social media.If he will thank you for it is another matter entirely it could get messy.Afterwards it is up to your son to decide how to deal with the situation.It also depends on your defenition of cheating.Is it just one other boy she is cheating with?It could be more.As to his girlfriend almost crying that is acting.Girls are very good at it.
Carissimi · F
Usually, I recommend parents keep out of their kids romantic relationships, but your son is still a minor, and God knows what disease he could pick up from her, so yes, tell him. Don’t do it in a text, or anonymously online dropping hints, just be his mom, and talk to him in person. Obviously with tact and compassion. What a horrible thing to have to do. I’m sorry, and I’m sorry for your son.
No... tell the girl's mother to tell the girl that she's got 30 days to tell him. If she doesn't, then you will.

Don't do it online, do it face to face. Keep in mind that he's around the age where this is going to be among some of the worst pain he's ever felt, too - so make it clear to him that you're there if he needs someone to talk to or to just listen to him.
Ontheroad · M
That is a tough one. You run the risk of your son getting angry at you, but I'd do it anyway. I think I might tell her mother my plan and tell her to tell her daughter to come clean or in (pick a number of days) you will tell him.
DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
I can see sad three days grace songs in his future, in particular "I hate everything about you"
ArtieKat · M
Perhaps you should confront the girl yourself
TexChik · F
@ArtieKat Nooo! Her son would be mortified and very angry. She should give him the information she knows and let him handle it.
ArtieKat · M
@TexChik I doubt he'll listen. There is no easy answer to this dilemma
TexChik · F
@ArtieKat I think he will listen. Sure he is going to be hurt but he doesnt want to look like a fool here.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
He’s learning a life lesson
496sbc · 36-40, M
Definitely talk to the girl friend
Sonuraaj2019 · 36-40, M
Better take clarity from both side
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
It may backfire, you anonymously telling him, as he may think, "who else knows"
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