My wife has a mental illness.

I think all women do

she calls it a husband

Did you drive her to it? Sure sounds like you did from reading your comment that said "mental illnesses are women issues" It doesn't seem as if you know much about mental illnesses, so you must have been the problem. I feel sorry for your wife and hope she is getting some help and maybe a divorce to go with the counseling is all she needs to get better. :) Best of luck!

very common in wives

So sorry...

It's you.

You're doing it wrong 🙄

Men stop being sexists 🙄