tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
u def did the right thing
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
If the adults can work arrangements out between them maturely it is always a 1000% better for the children. If the adults continually fight, the children lose.
It is not time for either of you to be trying to apportion the blame or take the high moral ground.
It is not time for either of you to be trying to apportion the blame or take the high moral ground.
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MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@Zeusdelight we tried it and he was always wanting me to come out with them and if I said no he'd be in a mood don't want our daughter having to deal with him and I don't want her crying herself to sleep every night he brings her home or doesn't want to come
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
@MiraRoss I don't blame you.
Any chance of having someone look after the daughter while you both go to the counselling.
At the moment he is acting like a hurt person who thinks he is unjustly hurt when he is not.
It means you giving a lot, but any chance he may be open to sorting daughter time and adult communication through counselling?
I know it is asking a lot of you, but in the long term it will be for the benefit of you all.
Any chance of having someone look after the daughter while you both go to the counselling.
At the moment he is acting like a hurt person who thinks he is unjustly hurt when he is not.
It means you giving a lot, but any chance he may be open to sorting daughter time and adult communication through counselling?
I know it is asking a lot of you, but in the long term it will be for the benefit of you all.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@Zeusdelight from what he's told me and his actions all he's trying to do it get me back.hes also blocked my number so can't contact him
496sbc · 36-40, M
sounds like he is not a very understanding bf.
ExperienceDLT · M
He sounds like a deadbeat don't let his threats upset you he is just trying to manipulate you into getting back with him if you do not want to be with him then stick to your guns don't give in and go back to him
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@ExperienceDLT that's what I thought I've told him many time it's notgonnaworkhe don't get it