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Why won't he let me go....

Me and my boyfriend have had problems on and off for over 2 years and I've warned him what will happen if he didn't change.
On Tuesday I gathered up some clothes and bits for the girls, I did plan to have a two week break from him but when I called him to meet up he told me to get lost and never contact him again.
Next day he wanted to get back with me and said he would change that he loves me, yet I don't hold any feeling to him anymore three days he's been trying to get back with me, why won't he get it its not gonna work.
He says I should give him one more chance that I don't have anything to lose.
I have two kids and I won't put them through it

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He came to speak to me again about the same thing, about how he has changed and how he’s quit smoking and is eating properly and other things.
Why doesn’t he get it
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SW-User
No. I don't think you should. If you go back you may never be able to leave again.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@SW-User if you don't love someone anymore you don't go back to them
SW-User
@MiraRoss No you don't. But you also don't go back to someone when they ask for one more chance and that they will definitely change this time. It won't happen.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@SW-User what my mum said
SW-User
@MiraRoss Listen to your mother and do what's right by your children. Forgive my asking, is he the father? If not, then the decision is simple. Do not go back.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@SW-User iam doing I've been at my mums few days now and I'll be here till I get my own place. Yeshe is dad too both
SW-User
@MiraRoss Hmm, well that's trickier. But still, he doesn't seem too vested in them. I'm going to stop talking now as I've said my piece. I don't know anything more about what's going on.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@SW-User yea it is a pain. He didn't want to know kids when he was in same house now he suddenly want to