I am making to much out of it?
If you have kids with someone and you guys are a family and are together yet you find out he/she is questioning others about the kids they have. Basically my bd told another girl you had kids on me. It made me feel as if he was insinuating that he was supposed to have kids with her. Which made me feel this isn't the family he wanted and he's just doing the right thing by being here for us.