what to say to your daughter's bf who is 20yrs older than her?

What would you do/say if you meet your daughter's boyfriend who is 20's yrs older than your 19-year-old daughter? I asked my daughter to bring him at our house for dinner and we meet him for the first time. It's not like their getting married but just to meet him and know him.

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fddlpej · 61-69, M

I would not like it but I would hope that he is as decent with her as possible. She may very well be a girl that likes older men. And if you get rid of this one the next one is right around the corner. She will find an endless amount of these people. Just hope it is a short term thing and will blow over.

Nonamefornow · 51-55, F

I do hope the same thing, really.