Jealous and envious family members: how many of us have them? (please read)
I have a few relatives who I’ve gotten bad vibes from for years. I don’t trust them and it doesn’t feel good being in their presence, however they pretend well even though I know deep down inside they have issues...
One relative in particular is a female cousin of mine...she’s always throwing unnecessary shade on Facebook about people living at home with their parents because I ended up moving back home after my breakup.
I found out she said some vile things about me behind my back and I’ve done nothing but try to be a cousin to her.
She says things like “people live at home with their parents shouldn’t be broke” and she does this often and it’s weird. This isn’t the first time she’s thrown shade my way, and I have a strong feeling it’s jealousy.
The funny thing is, I’m not broke. I’m employed and I also create and sell art for income. She has zero talent. She would pay someone else to do the same thing she could’ve paid me for, but instead expect it for free from me.
She has a bad relationship with her mother, her father wasn’t in her life, and I believe she’s envious of the relationship I have with my parents.
She has 3 children by 3 different men.
I don’t have any children (by choice).
She’s always telling personal business that was confided in her.
What’s weird about it is that she pretends like she doesn’t do any of this. She thinks I don’t know she’s a phony.
Moral of the story, it’s not always “friends” we have to worry about, it’s those closest to us that’ll do us the worst. It will be your own family to envy you...I stopped trying to understand.
One relative in particular is a female cousin of mine...she’s always throwing unnecessary shade on Facebook about people living at home with their parents because I ended up moving back home after my breakup.
I found out she said some vile things about me behind my back and I’ve done nothing but try to be a cousin to her.
She says things like “people live at home with their parents shouldn’t be broke” and she does this often and it’s weird. This isn’t the first time she’s thrown shade my way, and I have a strong feeling it’s jealousy.
The funny thing is, I’m not broke. I’m employed and I also create and sell art for income. She has zero talent. She would pay someone else to do the same thing she could’ve paid me for, but instead expect it for free from me.
She has a bad relationship with her mother, her father wasn’t in her life, and I believe she’s envious of the relationship I have with my parents.
She has 3 children by 3 different men.
I don’t have any children (by choice).
She’s always telling personal business that was confided in her.
What’s weird about it is that she pretends like she doesn’t do any of this. She thinks I don’t know she’s a phony.
Moral of the story, it’s not always “friends” we have to worry about, it’s those closest to us that’ll do us the worst. It will be your own family to envy you...I stopped trying to understand.
