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Dewkissedrose · 46-50, F
The abuse I went through was more subtle, but as I look back over the years... it was there.
It led to an emotionally abusive marriage, which I am still in. I didn't fully recognize what was happening because I was most likely conditioned from the time I was little to accept it - even in subtle ways.
The long term effects are depression, anxiety, and way too many emotional scars.
It led to an emotionally abusive marriage, which I am still in. I didn't fully recognize what was happening because I was most likely conditioned from the time I was little to accept it - even in subtle ways.
The long term effects are depression, anxiety, and way too many emotional scars.
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@Dewkissedrose I’m going through the same thing (actually just got out of an emotionally and physically abusive relationship) and for the love of me, I don’t know why I didn’t leave the first time he choked me, or the first time he called me a sl*t, b*tch and a c*nt. I forgave him only to be let down again. A lot of The conditioning is definitely from childhood trauma, I agree. It’s disheartening to say the least, sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever have a healthy relationship with a man because subconsciously, I am so used to toxicity