how do u feel when u as a big sister not yet married & ur lil sister is going to married but did not tell u & u hv to hear da news from someone else?

I actually think that's how I found out my little sister was getting married originally -- from someone else. In any case she's been divorced for well over 10 years. If she's heading for marriage again and didn't tell me it really wouldn't bother me that much cuz we're not close anyway.