I got this nice little note in my 5 year olds planner today. I’m not happy, her behavior is getting so bad. I don’t know what to do anymore...

@Emmalyn Could be obviously something is getting under her skin. Most of the time with my kids when they were being little shits there was a reason for it. Although that does not excuse the behavior there could be an explanation. You may find your self thinking well I would have flipped them off too :D

@Emmalyn Not blaming it on you, trust me I have two kids of my own they are far from perfect. In my case there has been instances where I had to punish behavior that not only did I understand, but may well have done same in their place and at their age. All a parent can really do is provide a loving home with constant boundaries and hope for the best. Sounds like you are doing that so it will be okay.