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How to deal with a sister that isn't talking?

I've got a sister who is 1 year older than me. She has decided she isn't talking to me. It sort of became obvious that she wasn't responding to messages etc. So I sent her a message "Have you decided you aren't talking to me?". I know it was read and there was no reply. A couple of weeks ago she told my 15yo daughter that she wasn't talking to me. Funnily enough my daughter knows my aunt is being childish.

My mum lives in a granny flat behind my sisters. She is going to have her 80th soon and it will be at my sisters place. I'm thinking that if she isn't going to talk to me it would be very awkward and perhaps I won't go......
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Picklebobble · 56-60, M
Whatever her problem is, it's HER problem. NOT yours.!
I hate when family play stupid games rather than say what's on their mind!
So bloody exhausting feeling like you're walking on eggshells anytime you meet !
WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M
Yes, but would you go over to her house if she wasn't talking to you?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@WhatShallIcallyou: yep I would go over there soon and just play dumb or like your concerned like "hey I have been trying to trying to reach you and no one answered, IS everything ok with mom? Your phone? You feeling ok? I thought something really serious was going on etc. "
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@WhatShallIcallyou: or better yet go there early to visit mom and talk to her instead. Go buy something to give to mom so she HAS To let you stay a bit.
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
@WhatShallIcallyou: If you've been invited, go !