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Parents: If I have children of my own and they ask me to be honest even if it hurts, should I be brutally honest with them?

My mom was a brutally honest women and will tell you the truth, even it it's painful. My dad is too. My brothers and I are brutally honest with each other. I guess we got it from them.
Anyways when I kid gets older like elementary school and middle school, should I be brutally honest with them? I don't wanna sugarcoat life and the hardships of things. I don't want them bitching at me for not telling them the truth.
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HerKing · 61-69, M
Sure if you want to traumatise a child who doesn't have the life skills yet to deal with it...why not?
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HerKing · 61-69, M
@EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988 Being 'brutally honest'?

Two scenarios of the same thing. A three year old is the child.

1) "Mummy, why won't (insert pet's name) wake up?"
"Sweetheart, I'm sorry darling, but he/she's sleeping and has gone to doggy/bunny/hamster heaven" Scoops up child who sobs as three year old's do.

2) "Mummy, why won't (insert pet's name) wake up?"

"It's dead, deal with it okay? Now go outside I'm busy."
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