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should I? Advice? What would you do?

I really want to disappear for 3 days, And make my husband deal with all I deal with because I don't think he Understands how hard it is for me and how easy he has it, how much he takes having a family for granted, and how much time and energy I put into doing things he doesn't think are important to keep up on. He supports me going back to college, yet I'm still the one arranging daycare, doing all the housework, the laundry, and I have to ask his help. He supports the family by working overnight 6 days a week and sleeping all day, never sticking to an actual routine. I sleep alone. I'm alone most of the day trying to keep up. :/
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HypnoKitten · 41-45, M
Sounds like he works his butt off to support you and your future career instead of enjoying his money, constantly exhausted.. you sure you wanna lose him? And are you sure he is the one who doesn't understand how hard the other has it?
Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F
Yes, because he got fired 3 times this last year, and has 2 years of probation with court ordered treatment for addiction issues he denied, and when I got grant money for daycare, we used it to catch up on bills because he doesn't make enough somehow to support us, he wastes money, and he complained he didn't get to spend any of my grant money. I needed a laptop for school. He wanted an Xbox.
HypnoKitten · 41-45, M
Ah, now that is a totally different description of the situation from before and would've been useful. Still wouldn't be dramatic about it with him, maybe just work on becoming self sustainable and then decide if you wanna just move along
Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F
I have hope of good things, but now I guess I'm just being insane doing the same thing again and again, expecting different results. I will be self sustainable, but I need more than saying "I support you going to school" to let me accomplish it
,,lord