should I? Advice? What would you do?

I really want to disappear for 3 days, And make my husband deal with all I deal with because I don't think he Understands how hard it is for me and how easy he has it, how much he takes having a family for granted, and how much time and energy I put into doing things he doesn't think are important to keep up on. He supports me going back to college, yet I'm still the one arranging daycare, doing all the housework, the laundry, and I have to ask his help. He supports the family by working overnight 6 days a week and sleeping all day, never sticking to an actual routine. I sleep alone. I'm alone most of the day trying to keep up. :/

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sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

ok, what about him?

Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F

He is a cook at Denny's 10p-6am. He only helps with the kids in the morning cuz he gets home at the time my oldest is getting ready for school and the others wake up. Then he sleeps all day. When he wakes up, he sits on the couch and watches TV, plays on his tablet, and I literally have to ask him to help with the kids.
I went to get Chinese food the other day, and left him with the baby. Since he is her father, I assumed he'd have her fed, have given her a bottle, and got her down for bed. Nope. He opened his Chinese food and commented on how he didn't get to it because she was content, but I could feed her and eat at the same time.
I bitched. It was almost 8:30p.

ItsAllAboutLove · F

@Starkizzed21: Men and multitasking.. Seems to be very difficult so I read... Pfff. Why do women need men I sometimes wander.. Goodif you can workout things together, but if not.. it makes life not so very comfortable huh.. (HUG)