Mamas of Similar Worlds...

Can I ask you some questions? My fiancè and I are trying to get me pregnant with our first baby, and I was wondering about some things about pregnancy.

Edit: if you want to comment to ensure that I know what Im doing and that Im not rushing into this blindly, kindly avoid this question. Ive answered this too many damn times today.

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XReaganX · 26-30, F

I have questions but I'll let others ask for me. Lol

SW-User

@XReaganX questions for me?

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User yuppah

SW-User

@XReaganX then ask.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User I don't want to be a dream killer. My own fiance and I eventually want to have a baby.

But, who's idea is it to have one [i]now?[/i]

SW-User

@XReaganX Mine! And he agrees.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User okay! That's good and all. Glad he wants a family with you.

But having a baby is [b]EXPENSIVE[/b] and completely unpredictable. It's why babies are typically planned and require a solid decision and preparation.

SW-User

@XReaganX Oh god this again.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User yes, again. That's just the financial aspect of things. I didn't even get to the point where he can still decide to walk out if he wanted to. Or the emotional aspect of pregnancy. Having "a baby emotionally breaks you down" --said by my mom. Then of course, you have to learn to have a level of consideration for the little person that depends on you for their survival. So I'm not going out of my way to be an ass here, I'm just wondering if you considered every consequence of this huge decision/commitment?

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@XReaganX to put it very simply? Yes. This isnt spontaneous puppy love. This man Im marrying ive known since we were little. Ive seen his life, and every hurt and pain in it that would make lesser men suicide. If there is any one person I know better than myself or anybody else, it is him. The implication that he might walk out made me want to fucking strangle you.

I know it seems unthinkable, but I do know what Im doing.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User easy, as I said, not trying to fight. I'm making sure you're not seeing things through rose colored glasses because I really do care. It does make me happy to hear that you found someone who knows you and loves you! That's a huge blessing! If you are ready for that, then by all means.