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rckt148 · 61-69, M
@bijouxbroussard I am sorry ,on this one my friend I strongly disagree
My kids and Grandkids love and respect me ,and they actually got very few spankings ,,
My step grandson's teacher calls me the miracle worker
We got the kids with special needs hitting ,spitting ,head butting ,scratching
sitting in the floor in class and pitching a fit because he did not want to go outside with the rest of the class ,,
He is 18 now ,back with his Mom who treats him like a retard ,,like a helpless baby ,,plays with lego's all day and watch's Cars ,the movie
With us he was in a lot of regular classes ,helped with the class
never hit anyone else again ,and when he would not listen ,they just called me and I spoke to him over the phone ,he complied ,,
He listens to me ,,,I punished him and his brother ,,,in 3 days I was able to get them to do more than anyone had ever been able to get them to do
I used to be a client at a vocational rehabilitation center ,I know what a real disability is compared to bad behavior ,,never being told no because at one point in your life you had a seizure ,,in 5 yrs ,I never seen him have 1 he was not faking it (there are ways to tell if it is a seizure or not ,,when having a seizure ,they can't respond to pain ,like a pinch ,,)
Now that no one is there at his Moms that he respects
His Mom asked him to get off his tablet and turn off his TV and come to supper
He refused ,,so she cut his tablet off
He walked over and locked the door ,so her new husband could not come in
and proceeded to beat the crap out of her
(he tried that on his teacher and my daughter 1 time here ,and I spanked him)
I could not beg him to head butt anyone else after that
Here he does chores ,makes his bed ,rides the bus ,had a girlfriend
made all "A's" in school (he did have some special classed ,,He has OCD )
His Mom said we caused that ,
Well it is on record and we have it
His grandma locked him out of the house and called the law on him and the younger brother ,,,He head butted her and the younger one beat her with a shoe
He bragged to me he would beat me with one too ,he found out he met his match
I do not agree ever with beating kids
But I do 100% believe ,,if you spare the rod ,You hate your child
I did not make that up ,I borrowed it from and expert on kids
My kids and Grandkids love and respect me ,and they actually got very few spankings ,,
My step grandson's teacher calls me the miracle worker
We got the kids with special needs hitting ,spitting ,head butting ,scratching
sitting in the floor in class and pitching a fit because he did not want to go outside with the rest of the class ,,
He is 18 now ,back with his Mom who treats him like a retard ,,like a helpless baby ,,plays with lego's all day and watch's Cars ,the movie
With us he was in a lot of regular classes ,helped with the class
never hit anyone else again ,and when he would not listen ,they just called me and I spoke to him over the phone ,he complied ,,
He listens to me ,,,I punished him and his brother ,,,in 3 days I was able to get them to do more than anyone had ever been able to get them to do
I used to be a client at a vocational rehabilitation center ,I know what a real disability is compared to bad behavior ,,never being told no because at one point in your life you had a seizure ,,in 5 yrs ,I never seen him have 1 he was not faking it (there are ways to tell if it is a seizure or not ,,when having a seizure ,they can't respond to pain ,like a pinch ,,)
Now that no one is there at his Moms that he respects
His Mom asked him to get off his tablet and turn off his TV and come to supper
He refused ,,so she cut his tablet off
He walked over and locked the door ,so her new husband could not come in
and proceeded to beat the crap out of her
(he tried that on his teacher and my daughter 1 time here ,and I spanked him)
I could not beg him to head butt anyone else after that
Here he does chores ,makes his bed ,rides the bus ,had a girlfriend
made all "A's" in school (he did have some special classed ,,He has OCD )
His Mom said we caused that ,
Well it is on record and we have it
His grandma locked him out of the house and called the law on him and the younger brother ,,,He head butted her and the younger one beat her with a shoe
He bragged to me he would beat me with one too ,he found out he met his match
I do not agree ever with beating kids
But I do 100% believe ,,if you spare the rod ,You hate your child
I did not make that up ,I borrowed it from and expert on kids