for everyone who has lost their parents or in a situation where you cant see them whatdo you do to remember them?

something my dad first did after my mother died was bought a stuffed bear and sprayed my mothers perfume to help me. and after my dad passed away it was harder as he was the last of my family. now i still get mums perfume and it helps alot and i watch alot of home videos to hear their voices.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

1. To honor them, to honor them, by being the best you can be for you.

(My dad passed away when I was 9yo.)

I don't stay stuck in the past, that was then. We all move on with life, we leave the nest, to establish our own life, our own place.

Build up your worth of self, then be your own anchor, your own inner light. You can be happy, don't be sad that they left, try not to be placed in the past, thinking on "what if' ......please don't stay stuck on the past sadness.

Be you
Be you....and shine for you...