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CrazyMusicLover 路 31-35
馃檵 25, I haven't felt any desire yet, never had a serious relationship to even consider having kids, my body has never been healthy enough to make me believe it could turn out well, two years ago I was diagnosed with a thyroid disease that just confirmed for me that I shouldn't have kids
Even if my body was alright I wouldn't trust my mind when it comes to such dramatic hormonal change like pregnancy - there's a chance I would go completely nuts
Even if my body was alright I wouldn't trust my mind when it comes to such dramatic hormonal change like pregnancy - there's a chance I would go completely nuts
Angeliclove 路 26-30, F
@CrazyMusicLover I'm 23..and my mom is always asking if I want to have kids.but I really don't think I would be a good mother, my mother herself has issues and she hasn't been the best mother I don't want to transform that to a innocent baby. And plus I had a horrible childhood which pretty much fucked me up.
CrazyMusicLover 路 31-35
@Angeliclove I understand. I am not asked by anyone but maybe that time will come when I'll be in my 30s. Depression is running in our family and I wouldn't like to pass it further either. But yes, childhood things can influence it even more and even though I can't say I had bad childhood there was one experience that f***d me up as fell on many levels.
Which is another reason but I won't elaborate.
So I can totally understand why people decide to have no children.
Which is another reason but I won't elaborate.
So I can totally understand why people decide to have no children.