Why do people say a person will change their mind or regret their decision not to have kids?

I’m just saying, I’ve seen plenty of people who are happy and don’t regret their decision to not have kids. Just because you want kids or regretted your decision, that doesn’t mean everyone will. Now stop telling people they will change their mind or regret it. It’s just disrespectful. I feel like you’re basically telling them that they’re so stupid that they can’t form their own views and opinion and only your way is the right way. You’re talking down to them about a personal choice that doesn’t effect you.

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in10RjFox · MVIP

I normally do that for those who claim that they are asexuals. But kids .. its individual decision... But they should not marry and deprive their partner of a child... for the real purpose of marriage is to have children.

666Maggotz · F

I thought the purpose was for the tax cuts but neither is the original purpose 😂 plus, being asexual is a legit thing. Idk why you people act like you know everything about everyone @in10RjFox

in10RjFox · MVIP

@666Maggotz that's psychology .. for we humans have the ability to think otherwise of nature ..

I thought the purpose was for the tax cuts but neither is the original purpose

yeah.. tax cuts to promote families .. Like no tax cuts for those who just want to live it out and go without a legacy ..

666Maggotz · F

Didn’t marriage originally start essentially as a bartering ticket? 😂@in10RjFox

in10RjFox · MVIP

@666Maggotz bartering what ?

666Maggotz · F

Essentially a trade system between tribes and communities. To keep the peace by marrying each other’s children off, or giving your child’s hand in marriage for goods (ie:Cattle/land)@in10RjFox

in10RjFox · MVIP

@666Maggotz why marriage for that when it's just a one-off transaction/ deal ?
But it started as a title-deed for cattle/land.. as women too were considered cattle .. and essentially a marriage was a title deed to say who the owner is .. But as population matured, it became a system to recognise families, where individuals were not considered a family.

666Maggotz · F

I’m just letting you know what marriage originally was. Don’t ask me, ask history 😂 women were only viewed as imprortant for breeding and homemaking purposes. They were not valued as individuals but like an object or dairy cow. So who gives a fuck about marriage? It’s barbaric practice. Marriage has changed throughout time. People now marry for love and commitment, hence why gays can marry as well. @in10RjFox

in10RjFox · MVIP

@666Maggotz totally agree. Its a stupid practise infused into mankind. They tried it with animals .. it never worked ..😀😀

Families too must be formed like businesses and companies..Corporate families.. and the practise of individuals marrying one another must be scrapped.