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Should we have another baby ?

Me and my wife have been married 11 years we have 3 kids 2 are mine from a previous marriage and a relationship. She got pregnant last year but she had a miscarriage at 3 1/2 months. She has an IUD in the doctor said it was the reason for the misscarige. Our son will be 8 in a few weeks our other sons are 26 he moved out lives with his partner our other son is 22 he has disabilities still lives at home but he has a job he’s hardly ever home. Our youngest son was really upset when we told him we lost his baby sister last year he’s always was wanting a little brother or sister my wife was hurt even more she’s been talking a lot about having another one but she’s not sure if she can. She still can’t get over our unborn daughters death. It’s been over a year. I’m 44 she’s 25. Should we have another baby ?
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Serenitree · F
This is certainly a decision you need to make together.
If you agree that you both want to, then the next question is, would it endanger her life in any way? If another miscarriage were to occur, how would it effect you? her? big brother? Emotionally, mentally?

If you agree that things will be okay, no matter what, then go for it.