I dunno what to say but my uncles n ant do the same with my father ... my father is the eldest and always took care of them like his children but now things have change , as all of them are settled and specially after the death of my grandparents (who were used gather us all time to time), they rarely contact us .. like barely twice or thrice a year ! .. first it felt bad but then didn't care about their behavior and we love them, no matter we meet twice a year, whenever we meet, we make sure its one of the best day they'll ever have, we don't complain about their behavior or the unfair they did but just smile, do stupid stuff, games music because we care about our late grandparents more than them and want to continue the legacy of our grandparents and most of all, they all have kids!, so we don't want our future generations to act like this... don't let the noise of others distract you from doing positive , our time is limited, this life is a trial not bed of roses , we are tested by the ones close to us , this does not matter what they did to us but what we did to them and what legacy we will leave behind .. I always wish when I meet my grandparents on the other side, I want see them proud of me ...