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Mothers and their children

Today was my mother's birthday... she died many, many years ago but I always think of her on her birthday. Today I remembered something I want to share with others. I wasn't all that easy of a son to have/raise, and at times I thought my mother and I were thousands of miles apart... I wondered if she cared about me at all.

I did, until, when I was just shy of 19, stuck in the jungles of Vietnam and one morning, while out on a patrol, our platoon got hit, hit hard and by a force three times our size.

They tore us up for the first few moments and the radio I was carrying caused me to draw heavy fire... tore the radio up but I never even got a scratch. I was as afraid as I had ever been in my life. That very same day after choppers belatedly (couldn't call for immediate air support because my radio was shot up) came in and evaced the casualties - we were lifted out the next morning. The moment I put my feet on the ground back at our LZ, the Chaplain was standing there - he grabbed my arm and drug me to his tent.

Seems my mother, at exactly the time I and the rest of the platoon had been hit, woke up in bed and had a feeling that I was in trouble, serious, deadly trouble. By morning her time she was frantic and ended up calling the Congressman for our district. She wouldn't let go of it until she had confirmation I was okay. The Chaplain told me all about it and sat me down, put paper and pen before me and had me write my mother.

A little over 6 months later I was home on leave and mom and I sat talking about the incident. She told me she had a dream/vision that I was being shot at over and over and had nowhere to get down and out of the line of fire. And, she somehow knew we couldn't communicate to get help.

It was the most surreal feeling and for me, proof positive that mothers have a special connection with their children. She knew exactly what was happening to her son, a son over 7,700 miles away from.

So yeah, if your mother is still alive, call her and tell her how much you love her. She is and will always be, no matter how far from you, connected to you, she is your mom. That is something special.
That’s amazing. My mother turned 89 yesterday. I intended to visit but became ill and didn’t want risk bring any germs. So we FaceTimed and it was wonderful. I plan to go visit her and my father next week if I can.

I definitely know what you mean about the connection.
Many years ago, when I was at college on the other side of the country, I suffered from a bout of depression senior year. I tried to keep it to myself, but out of nowhere Mom called. She’d been worrying about me, but wasn’t sure why. I told her everything was fine. I thought I’d fooled her, but I hadn’t. She jumped on the next plane and flew out. I was so glad to see her.
Ontheroad · M
@bijouxbroussard Mothers... how do they do it? I've never understood, but from that moment on, I believed there was something magical/spiritual about mothers. I, after that, talked to others who had been to Vietnam and found not a few who experienced similar things with their mothers. Then as I went through life I ran into those like you, who had similar experiences. Is it any wonder how mothers are held apart, held with such high esteem and love by all?
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She will remain with You in spirit.
I sort of live in my parent’s backyard, so yeah we are close. I tell her often. She’s sort of my best friend.
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Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
Great story. Wonderful and teaching recollection:)

Thank you
One of the best stories I've read. Thanks for sharing it.
Did you end up with PTSD.
DId the experience improve your relationship with your Mom, realising that she really did care?
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@hartfire No sane person comes home from war without some form of PTSD, but mine was not severe and was short lived. Mainly I think, because I stayed in the Army and saw others with severe PTSD (shell shock, which was what it was then called), and lost a couple of really close buddies to suicide because of it. Sort of woke me up and got me to realize what I was experiencing and I dealt with it (mostly). Did I change as a result of combat? Yes, both for the good and I think bad.

It not only improved my relationship with my mother, it changed how I looked at/thought of women in general. Maybe better put, it made me think about women as more than cute/pretty, as potential mates/girlfriends and sexual objects. Suddenly I realized I was thinking of them as, and I'm not sure how to put this, but as more than a woman, but as separate and different. It hit me that women had, for the want of a better word, superpowers.
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Your story just put tears in my eyes. May God bless and thanks for service.
Sparklesatnite · 51-55, F
Thanks for sharing a very heart felt story and experience
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Thanks for sharing this
Simply beautiful.
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It was your mother who loved you before you were born - who carried you for a long months close to her heart and in the fullest of time took God's hand in hers and passed through the valley of shadows to give you life. It was she who cared for you during the helpless years of infancy and scarcely less dependent years of childhood. As you have grown less dependent, she has done the countless, thoughtful, trouble-healing, helpful and encouraging things which somehow only mothers seem to know how to do. You may have accepted these attentions more of less as matters of course and perhaps without conscious gratitude or any expressions of your appreciation. You are rapidly approaching the time in life when you will be entirely independent of your mother. The ties which dependency has bound you to her may be served as you grow older, but the tie of mother-love can never be broken.
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