I remember being a small child and finding flowers in the back yard to give to my mom.

beloved, it is very courageous of you to want that... I understand as I am facing something similar, my parents have blocked me from showing emotions towards them. Which is okay.

I try to not push myself to people. I express myself but I let them have their choices too.
It's truly sad and a pity, but it is part of their freedom.

Keep your precious love to show it to those you love you back in expressions, and reciprocate it.
Love your family the way you do, and allow them to receive as much of your love as they can.

Forced love is rape you know.

I am sorry. I too wish my family would magically soften and we would all be open and receptive, but they are who they are and I allow them to be, despite it is hurting me too.

<3

In little moments let them know, nothing spectacular, just a little hint here and there, in a way that only they could understand, and the message you wish to convey will be delivered to them. For example a simple genuine smile, or a kind gesture, getting them something like coffee and donuts or whatever they like. May there be healing around the corner for you.

She remembers that too. I guaranty that.

Go out and buy her some flowers today. 🫂

Why do you feel like you need their validation at this age ?

Do it