My Buddy is upset with me or Joel I'm not sure So last night Joel, my buddy and I were sitting...

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My Buddy is upset with me or Joel I'm not sure

So last night Joel, my buddy and I were sitting out by the fire. And I'm not sure how we got on the subject but for some reason he asked me who would take my kids if something happened to me. I told him they would go to Joel. It's something him...

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Punches · 46-50, F

Is your buddy some kind of we*rdo who wants kids in his house?

Most normal men would not want to raise kids that were not their own.

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@Punches I don't think so

Levenrack · 46-50, M

Yeah obviously he has a strange but interesting idea, about the well being of your place in your relationship with Joel and his son. He definitely needs to clarify what it is, he's trying get at. Of course when you can get a chance to talk.

Only thing I figure, is he doesn't think the mother is part of the equation and that this is more like an quid pro quo situation. If that makes sense.

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@Levenrack he was in a bad place. It was my fault I should of remembered the date. It has with a woman and she had a son. He loved that boy and helped raise him for 5 years. They weren't married or anything. The mother was killed in a car crash and the boys father took him and completely cut my friend out of the boys life and there was nothing my friend could do about it. The boys birthday always hits him hard and I was so busy with the house and stuff I forgot and I should of been there for him.

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

I don't know why your buddy would ever bring that up. That's not his concern. It's basically a personal matter between you and Joel.

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@Barefooter25 think I might of said that my chest was been a little sore the last few days. So maybe that triggered him asking me, Still you are right

Poppies · 61-69, F

Do you think your buddy might have been wondering if you might want HIM to take your kids? Was he feeling a bit competitive with Joel there, considering your long-time friendship?

He will probably get over this.