How often do you spend time with your parents? What kind of relationship do you have?

I love both my father and mother. One is gone for many years now who ripped me apart with how he died, but I learned my love for him instead of anger from. My mother now tries to give her love to carry his .... and I want to tell her, his love was only his to give, while you knew it intimately, you have to trust your children and their love. So, yes, with love.