its just hard questions time with my kids

today my 4 year old asked me something i knew was coming. Hes a twin and his twin was lost in the womb when i was still in first trimester. He knows about it and in the pictures on the living room wall of all my kids as newborns theres one more a sonogram picture of him and his twin at my first sonogram. He asked me if one these twins were going to die before birth too. I took him to my bedroom and we set there and I tried to explain the best I could to my son that doesn't always happen and we hope it doesn't happen this time too. Best thing to do is pray

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Dv8rs · 18-21, F

I have so many questions, but out of respect I shall not ask. I have tears running down my face, as I type this. I can't imagine, how strong your family has to be to endure such a tragedy. I wish you all the best, and I think that wish will come true, because you are strong, and candid, a good mother. peace

Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F

@Dv8rs simple explination alot ppl dont know with multiples you can miscarry one or even more than one baby and not loose all them. in fact i know a woman that was having triplets and lost 2 of them

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

@Mountainlady16 That's heartbreaking, and sometimes bad things happen to good people. You can, and are using that bad for good, by being stronger for you, and your family.

Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F

@Dv8rs yes i was hoping that this would be twins when i found i was pregnant last week i got my wish

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

@Mountainlady16 Congratulations, to you, your family, and your twins who will be born healthy, and beautiful, just like their mother.