This was the message that was sent to me by the girlfriend of the father of my child, I think this is any parents fear, but I'll make sure nothing happens to my baby!
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@Jatziri: I agree with you on the need for protection, but you're going at it in a way that likely ends in more problems for you. To win a fight, fight to win...not fight to fight.
Being more aggressive verbally or otherwise, than she is will only make you look worse to everyone...the police, your daughter, your ex, and the judge (cuz you're heading that direction really fast.)
I agree but I was really mad to be honest it's just that once someone talks about my daughter it triggers me she's my only baby and I would be die if anything happened to her
@Jatziri: FWIW...one of the first things you learn in hand-to-hand combat is to use the other person's inertia and aggression against them to defeat them...quickly and (almost) effortlessly on your part. When they lunge at you you pull them instead of push back. When they try to punch your lights out you simply step sideways and then let their face fall into your fist.
When an asshole threatens your child, you simply respond with astonishment and show the closest policeman the text message and then smile as the asshole is handcuffed and taken to jail. We are waaay beyond the day when police and lawyers disregarded threats to children's lives. (Unless you live in the deep deep deep deep south.)
