I wanna know if I sound petty......

My babies dad has been seeing her eight week one hour a week. She is nearly two and he has never asked me any questions about her and he also seems anxious/ nervous around her from what my mum's told me she was there for my daughter for three sessions for her comfort. In general he seems very nervous and there is red flags has been since his involvement and been to court and they want to see what happens even with his red flags.
He is to have her for five hours knowing nothing and now I'm being told I have to write up a book about her for him because he doesn't ask questions and I'm the bad parent for not telling him anything even if he doesn't ask. He just doesn't seem interested in her at all I have a social worker at the moment and she has no concerns even though there is.
Just makes me feel like I'm being petty what do you guys think I feel like her father mother I shouldn't have to tell him how to be a bad, he's no confidence In anything and if I offer advice he says I'm controlling I'm so at a loss. I want my daughter to be safe but I fear for her safety