What can i do to contain my near-puberty boys as a lone mother?

i always think in that matter since divorce , now my boys are near puberty and i need some advices, how can i handle my boys in this difficult duration in their life, my older son started to have more fights with his school mates, how to handle him without being too cruel with him

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I find approaching him in a gentle manner may help ...my son is 15 and I found that just talking to him about things that matter to.him and building up to things that needed to be discussed really helped ...letting him know that I will always be there for him to talk and listen to helped as well ...reassuring him that I love him no matter what helps as well ....if that doesn't help ..setting up a meeting with school to talk through these issues may help too ..
Also maybe him seeing a therapist may help him too .
.good luck ..it's tough ! I know this too