What can i do to contain my near-puberty boys as a lone mother?

i always think in that matter since divorce , now my boys are near puberty and i need some advices, how can i handle my boys in this difficult duration in their life, my older son started to have more fights with his school mates, how to handle him without being too cruel with him

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HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M

Boys tend to show more anger when things just don't make sense. The divorce and the onset of puberty can be emphasizing this anger. Boys need a male figure to look up to. Without a male figure, you need to show them love, care and understanding. You need to be strong and make it known the you are still in charge. Boys near puberty age need privacy and room to explore these new feelings and desires. Be strong, but understanding with them. Patient, but not a push over.
Best of luck to you and your boys