Afraid To Do This Alone....

I've kicked my husband out after I found out he bought lingerie for another woman...the attorney process has been started...

Our two year old son is going to suffer because of his infidelity... My son asks for his father throughout the day while his dad is at work and gets so excited when he gets home.... My husband also has two kids from another marriage he destroyed... I've known them half their lives... now I have to lose them.

I've lived on my own before, but never as a mother... I don't know how to run a home with a toddler, alone. I don't know how to tell him that daddy's not here with us anymore. Of course, he can see his dad whenever he wants, but until he finds his own place instead of living with family, my son can't stay with him overnight.

How do I do this? And how do I stay strong for my favorite person in the world? He will always be my priority. But I don't know how to be a single mom...

MushroomFaerie

It sounds like you've got a pretty good head on your shoulders but you are overwhelmed right now. Iam so so sorry. You keep your head high, your baby first, yourself next and anyone else who isn't good for either of you can get screwed. He made his bed now he needs to sort things out so he can see his baby, dont let him make you feel guilty, its down to him to make things better from the mess he has made. He has hurt his wife and child and destroyed his family so he needs to get out and live on his own, set up a safe stable place elsewhere where bubby can stay and you can feel some kind of security about it xx