My goal is to find a loving partner !

@markinkansas yes but it's better to not settle for less.

@sahi81 its sometime less or nothing at all . nobody can be everything . we are human after all

@markinkansas everyone have flaws, flaws are different from red flags.

It's possible to have mutual understanding relationship where there is respect and understanding towards each other.

@sahi81 i value honest over all .. not looks not money . honesty . people have done things in there past and regretted them. some learn and some do not . a honest person will tell you what you might not want to here . at least they are not lying to your face about that.. respect comes second and so does understanding. we all can learn from others.. i hope you can understand my point of view.. this is honesty . and yes i would like to find a good woman. its seems hard tho

@markinkansas someone who tells us our mistakes is important... If that's what u mean

@sahi81 not just our mistakes . they should share there mistakes in the past that they have made also.. both people should not have secrets from each other.. then love and need will come in time.. you do not need to love the person its sometime out of needing a better life or moving from a bad place . however if both are honest with that it can work .. honesty first . maybe i did not say this right . however we can chat and i will get better..

@markinkansas honesty requires trust

@sahi81 yes it does .and that takes time to build.. i watch what a person does . and who his friends are.. sometimes its hard