I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

We usually tell ppl to leave an abusive relationship, however we need to tell them how to do so. I'm afriad to leave mine as im afraid my child grows up wo a father figure, I am holding on to hope that my bf will change, Im afraid I'll be cutting off a group of ppl that love my child. However he don't sleep w me, we don't communicate even when were on good terms and he has a lot of support from his friends.

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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@trackman11 thank u, my plan is to talk to someone and get some support and then go tru w ending the relationship. If ppl only knew how he treats me..but he lies so much and come off as a victim.

Carazaa · F

@destinyfabulous sounds like you have a plan that's good. Please if you separate do so when he is away and don't tell him because more women are murdeted within 12 months of leaving. Have a friend or someone with you when leaving!