Strange to realize even though I chose a man nothing like my father, he still does the same things to our son that my dad did to me...

@EarthlingWise impatient, mind games where rules only apply to our son even though it's something they have in common. If he spends the day with his dad his dad won't feed him, give him water, take him to the bathroom, nothing. He basically ignores him except to be grumpy and bossy. He's a shit teacher, at least my dad was better in some ways. But this man acts like he's pissed that he has a child.

Mind you he lives with me, in my house, rent free, he just pays child support. Yet he can't be counted on for anything except being lazy, avoidance and grumpy.

I tried to give my son the best I could. I thought having his dad around would be better but he doesn't co-parent, he just makes things harder.

@ScreamingFox I'm sorry. While I'm not a dad, I'm an uncle, but regardless of that, even I realize that there are responsibilities parents have for their children. It is irresponsible of him as a dad to not properly take care of your and his son.