More diary entries.
He asked me if I would make a promise. I said no, because I didn't feel like I owed him any promises now that we aren't together.
Some time later, I realised that he had enrolled in a college program just because he loved me and it had been one of my parents' conditions for a man to be married to me (the man should have higher education like myself).
I thought about his future family, his children, and what if lack of higher education would block opportunities for him and make his future generations suffer financially. As someone who had always resented her father for choosing the easy paths in life (despite having higher education), I don't want any child in the world to ever feel like this.
So I finally told him that I would, if he promised to complete his bachelor's no matter how long it takes. He agreed.
Maybeeeee we had just met so that he would start his higher education. Maaaayyyyybe we met for something good after all, even if it didn't last?
Some time later, I realised that he had enrolled in a college program just because he loved me and it had been one of my parents' conditions for a man to be married to me (the man should have higher education like myself).
I thought about his future family, his children, and what if lack of higher education would block opportunities for him and make his future generations suffer financially. As someone who had always resented her father for choosing the easy paths in life (despite having higher education), I don't want any child in the world to ever feel like this.
So I finally told him that I would, if he promised to complete his bachelor's no matter how long it takes. He agreed.
Maybeeeee we had just met so that he would start his higher education. Maaaayyyyybe we met for something good after all, even if it didn't last?




